Well if you ask me, Long distance relationships have a reputation of not working out, and very few chances of it working out. I must admit that it is extremely hard to keep this kind of relationship fresh, constant, and active. In my opinion, if a couple can make it through the distance then they are meant to be and SHOULD be rewarded for their self mutilation. Annnddddd.... when it doesn't work out it is because one of the partners (or both) is most likely one of the following people (in MY opinion).
The Imaginative One: The one constantly calls, and when he/she can't get a hold of their partner, they would make up crazy stories in their heads of why they aren't answering the phone. Also the one that imagines the worst case scenario. They tend to be on edge, a hint of bipolar, maybe a little psycho. They want to be on the phone 24/7 even when you are in the shower and don't really have anything to talk about. They most likely do this because they don't want to imagine any more crazy scenarios of you cheating on them, or getting into a car crash.
The Silent One: The one that would barely talk to you about how their day has gone. He or she is usually boring to have conversations with and they are not very open about their feelings. When their partner does something that they don't like, they just keep it inside. And in a way that is not being totally honest with the other. This is also the one that doesn't have good communication with their significant other. So therefore situations and problems will be hard to be fixed when broken.
The Selfish One: Then there is the worst of the worst. The selfish one. Now, this person doesn't give a flying fuck about anything or anyone. In their minds it is all about "ME, ME, ME, ME!!" They will cheat, lie, and steal to get what they want. They don't care if they hurt other's feelings, break their hearts, or lie right in front of their face. Yet they don't want these situations to happen to them. They are a roller coaster, a one person circus! So now they just have to go. You have been warned
But you know there are a few small cases where long distance relationships work. Just as long as you have communication and honesty then all is good. It can be very hard not remembering what a kiss feels like. Or what holding their hand made you feel at that moment. Skype isn't the same as seeing someone face to face. Arguments can be difficult to solve and it can get pretty lonely sometimes.
All I can say is to keep positivity in your relationship and that should be a big help. Also trying to make future plans with each other is a big help. Because without seeing that person in your future most likely there will be no future. Don't put yourself in situations where you know something is going to go wrong.
For example, she might love to go out and have a girl's night out. Dancing the night away with a disco ball above her. Hypnotizing her into a club trance. Of course every woman loves the feeling of being wanted, that is why we love getting comments about our looks from other people. But some do take it too far and start to flirt with other men. She might not want this other guy, she has boyfriend but far away. So she dances while drinking her drink, giving him the eye, and the next thing you know she is making out with this stranger that is probably only good looking because of the alcohol that she has consumed. Fuck, she made a mistake. So now what is the best thing to do. Blame it on the alcohol.... but either way, it's wrong.
So you see? Don't put yourself into this situation. Same thing for men! Putting yourself into these situations, knowing that self-control is limited, most likely it will all end in a war. Why even do that to your significant other.
Well in the end all you have is each other. So if you want to make your relationship work out, sacrifices will have to be made. If it was that easy then everyone would be able to do it. Just remember that long distance relationships are a wonderful thing if you want it to be. It CAN work out if you want it to
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